Dildo: realistic dildos, fake penises and silicone dildos

What is a dildo?

The term dildo, in plural dildis, refers to a sex toy designed for vaginal or anal penetration. Its meaning is precise: a non-motorized toy, available in various shapes, sizes, and materials. Pleasure comes from manual movement and the fullness it provides.

Unlike vibrators, a dildo works exclusively on mechanical stimulation. The sensation of fullness is the main strength, and it changes radically based on the shape, diameter, and material chosen. Medical silicone is the most common material because it is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to sterilize. However, there are also models made of borosilicate glass, stainless steel, and realistic materials like CyberSkin, each offering a completely different tactile experience. Sizes start from 10 cm for entry-level models and go over 30 cm for those seeking extreme fullness. A soft rubber penis is often the first choice for those approaching this type of toy, as it forgives angling mistakes and easily adapts to the body.

• Why choose a dildo?
• Different types of dildos
• How to use a dildo?
• How to choose the right dildo?
• Frequently asked questions

Why choose a dildo?

A dildo allows you to control every aspect of penetration: depth, speed, angle, and rhythm. It is the toy that offers the most complete freedom in internal stimulation, whether alone or with a partner.

Those trying a dildo for the first time often discover sensations that traditional penetration cannot replicate. A curved model accurately reaches the G-spot, stimulates the prostate with one designed for anal use, or simply lets you enjoy the fullness of a smooth, straight model. As a couple, it becomes a playful tool that expands possibilities: during oral sex, in foreplay, or as the star of shared fantasies. A fake penis made of medical silicone is the most natural starting point for those approaching this category: fake penises are among the most requested accessories, both for personal use and among same-sex couples. The difference between a cheap dildo and a quality one is immediately noticeable: medical silicone transmits body heat, has natural flexibility, and does not retain odors. Harder materials like glass offer precise and intense pressure, perfect for targeted stimulation.

Different types of dildos

The dildo category includes very different shapes and functions. Each type meets a specific need: here are the main ones to guide you in your choice.

Classic dildo

The classic dildo has a smooth, cylindrical shape, without veins or anatomical details. It is the most versatile model and suitable for beginners: the uniform surface glides easily and does not require specific orientation during use. Silicone models are the most common. Sizes range from 12 to 20 cm, with contained diameters making it comfortable for frequent use.

Realistic dildo

The realistic dildo replicates the shape of a penis with veins, glans, and sometimes even testicles. Realistic penises made of silicone or CyberSkin provide a very natural tactile sensation, with a soft exterior and a firmer internal core that replicates real consistency. Many models include a suction cup at the base for hands-free use on smooth surfaces. If you are looking for the most faithful experience possible, realistic dildos are the best choice.

Double dildo

The double dildo has two penetrable ends and is designed for simultaneous stimulation of two people or for double penetration on one person. The flexibility of the material is crucial in this model, as it must adapt to different positions and angles. As a couple, it is among the most versatile toys: it allows for close physical contact and a shared sensation that other accessories do not offer.

Glass dildo

The glass dildo made of borosilicate is smooth, rigid, and practically indestructible. The non-porous surface makes it the most hygienic toy overall and the easiest to sterilize. Those looking for a vibrating penis will find glass models with an internal motor, but most glass dildos focus on the purity of mechanical stimulation. Glass transmits temperature: you can warm it in hot water or cool it down to add a unique sensory dimension to the session. The precise pressure it offers is particularly appreciated for G-spot and prostate stimulation.

Giant dildo

The giant dildo covers enormous, XXL, and maxi sizes, starting from 20 cm with significant circumferences. It is not the category for beginners: it requires experience with medium-sized toys and a gradual progression. The difference between a huge dildo that is long and thin and an xxl that is wide is substantial: the former works on depth, the latter on the sensation of fullness.

Anal dildo

The anal dildo has a flared base or a safety ring that prevents complete insertion. This feature is essential for anal use, where the body does not have a natural stop. Dedicated models often have a progressive diameter that facilitates gradual insertion. The surface is generally smoother than vaginal models to ensure comfort in a more friction-sensitive area.

Strap on

The strap on combines a dildo with a harness worn around the waist, allowing for hands-free penetration of the partner. It is among the most requested toys for couples wanting to try pegging or penetration between women. The best harnesses distribute weight evenly and leave hands free to stimulate other areas. The realistic penis is the most used model with the strap on, but classics work well too.

How to use a dildo?

Using a dildo is simple, but some practical tips can enhance the experience and protect the body. Here’s what to know before starting and during use.

Lubricant and preparation

Intimate lubricant is essential with any dildo, even when the body produces natural lubrication. The difference between using a toy with and without lubricant is enormous: with the right gel, every movement becomes smooth and pleasant, without the risk of micro-abrasions. For silicone dildos, always use a water-based lubricant: silicone-based ones can damage the toy's surface. For glass and steel, any type is fine. Apply lubricant both on the toy and on the body, and reapply during the session whenever you feel friction.

Movements and positions

Start with a slow and gradual insertion, allowing the body to adapt to the size. The classic movement is in and out, but also try rotation and lateral pressure to stimulate different points. For the G-spot, use a curved model and press towards the front wall of the vagina with rhythmic movements. On all fours, the suction cup dildo becomes the star: fixed on a smooth surface, it allows you to control penetration with hip movement. Soft rubber penises adapt better to more dynamic positions because they follow the body's curves without creating uncomfortable pressure.

Cleaning and storage

Wash the dildo before and after each use with warm water and mild soap, or with a dedicated cleaner. Non-motorized silicone models can be boiled for 3-5 minutes for complete sterilization. Glass and steel can be sterilized the same way. Never use the same toy for anal and vaginal penetration without washing it: the risk of infections is real. Store each toy in an individual case, dry and protected from dust. Silicone dildos should be kept separate from each other to avoid chemical reactions between surfaces.

How to choose the right dildo?

The choice of dildo depends on three main factors: size, material, and type of stimulation you are looking for. Here’s how to guide yourself without making mistakes.

Size and shape

If it’s your first experience, choose a contained diameter (2.5-3 cm) and a length between 12 and 15 cm. The body needs time to get used to it, and starting with a model that is too large risks making the experience unpleasant. The silicone penis with a tapered tip facilitates initial insertion. For those with experience looking for fullness, models from 18-25 cm with a diameter of 4-5 cm offer a more intense sensation. Shape matters as much as size: a curved dildo stimulates the G-spot precisely, while a straight one is more versatile and suitable for deep penetration.

Material and sensations

The soft dildo, made of soft silicone or dual-density with a yielding outer layer, adapts to the body's curves during movement: it is the choice for those wanting a more natural penetration sensation compared to rigid models in ABS or glass. Medical silicone is the recommended material for beginners: soft, safe, and compatible with condoms. The realistic vibrator and CyberSkin penises offer a tactile experience almost indistinguishable from real skin, but require more care in maintenance. Borosilicate glass is rigid and smooth, perfect for those who love precise pressure and want to play with temperatures. Stainless steel has its own weight that adds a unique sensation of fullness. Each material radically changes the experience, even with the same shape and size: it’s worth trying more than one to understand which you prefer.